Whilst Kinkdom is a brand of alternative lifestyle event, the Kinkdom Club is an associated private club. The benefits to members are entry to Kinkdom play events at a reduced rate, and the freedom to bring up to three guests (who will be charged the full non member rate).

Most Kinkdom play parties are for members and their guests only.

On joining The Kinkdom Club, members must agree to abide by the following code of conduct:

General

Different people have different kinks. Kinkdom events encompass most legal kinks, which makes it a very broad church. It provides a safe and non-judgemental environment for groups of many leanings. The Kinkdom Club, and its members will, therefore, respect other members and their guests, and their respective fetishes, at all times.

Members will not use their membership of the Kinkdom Club in any manner which might imply that they have any rights other than those described above.

Members will not under any circumstances reveal details of any other member to any other party.

Members will be responsible for the activities of their guests whilst attending any Kinkdom event.

Kinkdom play events have their own etiquette. Members are expected to familiarise themselves with Kinkdom etiquette, play within it themselves, and bring it to the attention of their guests, who are required to abide by it.

Proscribed drugs are not allowed on the premises, and those under the influence of such drugs should not attend. The venue management may report to the police anyone they see taking drugs on their premises.

Drunken behaviour is likely to result in immediate expulsion.

Smoking is permitted only in the designated areas.

Kinkdom Etiquette

Kinkdom is inclusive. We expect members and their guests to show equal respect to everyone present, irrespective of sexual orientation, gender or kink.

All play must be consensual.

Do not touch other members’ play kit without the permission of the players.

Watching a scene is perfectly acceptable, provided that you are discreet. Interfering with a scene without invitation is not acceptable.

Unaccompanied submissives are not “game for all”. They have the same right to say “No” as anyone else.

Accompanied submissives may sometimes play with others, but it is up to the submissives and their Dom/mes. If you wish to play with someone else’s sub, ask the Dom/me first where it is clear that their style of D/s requires such protocol, otherwise ask both the submissive and their Dom/me.

Photography and or sound recording is prohibited.

Familiarise yourself with any piece of equipment before you use it, especially if there is any reason to expect that a quick release might be required. Kinkdom staff will explain equipment to you if you are unsure, simply ask.

Whilst we will have floor walkers in attendance, they can’t be everywhere at once. You are responsible for your play. Play only within your own capability and expertise.

Kinkdom Play Parties are designed to attract serious SM practitioners, in other words, unless you tell us otherwise, we will assume you have experience and know what you are doing. Our staff are always extremely willing to demonstrate their own expertise and knowledge – the only stupid question is the one you were too arrogant to ask!

Full nudity is not normally permitted.

Do not unnecessarily or unduly impose your fetish on others.

Activities within a play party must be legal, since English Law still applies. This includes the laws on decency, which pretty much make illegal any sexual act in a public place which is likely to be observed.

Proscribed drugs are not allowed on the premises, and those under the influence of such drugs should not attend.

Drunken behaviour is likely to result in immediate expulsion.